To answer your questions
1. No, Erica and I are not engaged yet.
2. Yes, we think we will be soon (1-2 weeks)
3. We recognize that we need to tell you all as soon as we pick a date, but the date will most likely come in the same 1-2 week timeframe.
4. Yes, Erica and I do exist, we do have a relationship, we are dating, and we have kissed.
5. Yes we are busy. We've got more things we need to do than what we have time for
1. No, Erica and I are not engaged yet.
2. Yes, we think we will be soon (1-2 weeks)
3. We recognize that we need to tell you all as soon as we pick a date, but the date will most likely come in the same 1-2 week timeframe.
4. Yes, Erica and I do exist, we do have a relationship, we are dating, and we have kissed.
5. Yes we are busy. We've got more things we need to do than what we have time for
Comments
One could say we're engaged to be engaged. We've not "Pledge[d] or promise[d]".
There's some key things that an "official" engagement consists of. We don't want people to ask "When are you getting married?" and us to say "Good Question". So we're trying to find a day that works. But it's extremely hard to find a good date that works for everyone. So we've decided to take a step back and not stress ourselves in trying to find a date within the next few days. There's no requirement (since we're not officially engaged) for us to have a date yet.
There. I've said several cent's worth I think.
Comprende?
Actually, I do care about having the rest of the fam be able to come too. Brigham has to know like 90 days in advance, so that should leave you safe BJ. Besides, unless you elope, I don't think you can pull off a wedding with all of the trimmings in 1 month, BJ. Your announcements are supposed to go out 3 weeks ahead of the event, and they don't have engagement pictures even yet.