50 bucks

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.
SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'
DAD: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the man.
SON: 'Daddy, how much do you make an hour?'
DAD: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the man said angrily.
SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'
DAD: 'If you must know, I make $50 an hour.'
SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.
SON: 'Daddy, may I please borrow $25?'
The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish
frivolities.'
The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.
The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down , and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $25.00 and he really didn't ask for money very often The man went to the door of
the little boy's room and opened the door.
'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.
'No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.
'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the man. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $25 you asked for.'
The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.
The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.
'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father grumbled.
'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.
'Daddy, I have $50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.
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Sometimes we don't realize that what we do as a matter of daily life and think of as normal is being seen by those around us as an undesirable trait. Yesterday it was pointed out to me that I've really caused some big problems in our family by being my normal impatient self. I'm sorry. I'm begging for forgiveness. I'll try to change that undesirable trait of impatience.

Comments

Christa said…
I'm certainly not in a positon to cast any stones! You may not be perfect, but we love you anyway!
BUFFY said…
I love you daddy! I wouldn't want anyone else for my daddy! Who else would I get to watch scary movies with me?
Gramps said…
Nobody is ever in a position to cast stones, but when it's made painfully obvious to a person that they are causing damage, it's not the time to get defensive. Perception is reality. Whether or not one thinks what they are doing is bad, if it's taken by someone else as bad...then it's bad. Bretsker, thanks for the email.
Marilyn said…
Hey! I was the first on this to make a comment, and it was NICE! Why didn't it show up? Grumble grumble. Hey, nobody is perfect, but we can all keep trying to be! And over time, we become better people. That's what were here for!
Chad said…
I'm not sure what you're talking about, but nobody's perfect. I love you!

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